outflow determines inflow

Some of you may remember I wrote about the book I read a while ago, "A New Earth." It intrigued me quite a bit, since Oprah would not shut up about how much it would "change your life, awaken you, change the earth!" I didn't find it to be that dramatic..I am pretty content in my life, however I know we are all a work in progress, there was a lot of good information that I needed to hear, and it really made me think. Which I was happy to do for a change ;)

One of the greatest things that I got from it was the simple statement, Outflow Determines Inflow. It makes so much sense, and I really do believe this to be true. He talks about how some people complain and whine their way through life. About how they are not welcomed enough, loved enough, helped enough, cared for enough. He says that means YOU are not giving those things to the world. He said whatever it is you feel like you are not getting, simply means you are not giving it. A harsh, but true reality check. This instantly struck me, and has stayed with me ever since.

I think back to when I said things about not feeling at home in my new ward, or not feeling welcomed at any particular setting. I now know that I am the one responsible. A difficult lesson for me, since I have always resorted to "I'm just shy... an introvert, that's just the way I am." No more excuses. If I want to have a friend, I have to be a friend. If I want service when I am in need, I need to give service to those in need. When I feel unwelcome or unloved, then I need to step up and be that welcoming person. To get, you have to give. (this even applies to blog comments, ha ;)

I am grateful for this valuable lesson.